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Paula Ciocirlau

Paula Ciocirlau

BACP

United Kingdom

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In their wordsPerson-centred support for life changes

Key details

Credentials
BACP
Registration
BACP, United Kingdom / 387673
Experience
8 years
Languages
English, Romanian
Location
United Kingdom

Details come from information the therapist supplied to BetterHelp.

  • Client-centred approach
  • Solution-focused steps
  • English and Romanian

About Paula

Paula Ciocirlau is a counsellor who helps people facing stress, anxiety and life changes. She works with issues such as depression, grief, relationship and intimacy concerns, parenting challenges, career pressures and addictions. Paula also supports people dealing with trauma, coping with natural or human-caused disaster, ADHD and compassion fatigue. She speaks English and Romanian and practises from the United Kingdom.

Paula takes a practical, person-centred approach. She aims to make sessions straightforward and focused on what matters most to the individual. Clients set goals together with Paula and the work is guided by their priorities and pace.

Her practice draws on Client-Centred Therapy, Solution-Focused Therapy and Internal Family Systems. That means Paula listens closely, helps people spot patterns that hold them back, and works with parts of the self to reduce internal conflict. Sessions combine gentle exploration with practical steps people can try between meetings.

Paula began her psychotherapy journey in 2016 in Vienna and has eight years of professional experience. Her international background informs how she relates to people from different cultures and life situations. She holds BACP accreditation as listed in her credentials.

Therapy with Paula uses a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time. To begin, clients use the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule sessions according to therapist availability. International clients are welcome, and Paula aims to adapt methods to each person’s needs.

How Paula’s approaches translate to online therapy

Client-Centred Therapy focuses on listening and reflecting so a person feels understood and able to make their own choices. Online sessions using this approach still centre on the person’s experience and goals, helping people who feel overwhelmed, anxious or uncertain.

Solution-Focused Therapy aims to identify small, practical steps and build on strengths. In remote work this can be especially useful for setting short-term goals and tracking progress between meetings. Internal Family Systems looks at different parts of a person’s inner experience and how they relate to each other, which can help with trauma, self-criticism and complicated emotional patterns.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. Paula will discuss what feels most helpful and adapt methods to each person’s needs, goals and preferences in a collaborative way. Together the therapist and client decide which techniques to use and when to try something different.

Practical benefits of online therapy include fitting sessions into a busy life and reducing travel time. It can make it easier to schedule shorter check-ins around work or to join from another location without needing to travel. Because session formats are not specified in the biography, confirm the available options before booking so you know how sessions will be arranged.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesParenting issuesCareer difficultiesDepression

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersAnger managementSelf esteemBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHearing impairedHIV / AIDSHoardingImmigration issuesImpulsivityInfidelityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaSomatizationTraumatic brain injuryTrichotillomaniaVisually impairedWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapySolution-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

Experience

8+ years

Credentials

United Kingdom

Languages

English, Romanian

Frequently asked questions

What concerns can Paula help with?

She supports people with stress, anxiety, depression, relationship and intimacy issues, parenting and career pressures, addictions, trauma and grief, as well as many related concerns such as ADHD, eating and sleeping difficulties.

What is her therapeutic style like?

Her style is person-centred and practical, combining listening with goal-focused work so clients can try concrete steps between sessions.

How much clinical experience does she have?

Paula has eight years of experience, having started her psychotherapy journey in 2016 and worked with diverse clients since then.

What credentials and location are listed?

She is listed with the BACP and practises from the United Kingdom.

Which languages are supported and can she work internationally?

Sessions are offered in English and Romanian, and she accepts international clients.

What session formats are available?

Session formats are not specified in the biography, so confirm current options before booking to ensure the format fits your needs.

How is cost handled for sessions?

Costs vary with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin working with her?

Use the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule sessions according to therapist availability.

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